How do I tell him?

Dear Agony Aunt,

My husband and I had been trying for a baby for the last year, he is really keen to start a family…but I am not. I didn’t want to crush his dreams for us so I went along with it.
A few weeks ago I found out I was pregnant and I’m in despair, I haven’t told my husband yet but I’m just not ready yet to have a child. I love him and don’t want to hurt his feelings. This should be the happiest time for us but it’s turning into a nightmare for me. What can I do??

Agony Aunt:

I understand that this can be a very emotive time for any woman; I think you should sit down with your husband and talk things through, hiding your troubles won’t make your woes disappear. There is family planning advice available to both of you out there, so maybe take advantage of it and try and make this a joyous and happy time for both of you.

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